type="fs-cc"

Finding Your Voice – Why Public Speaking Doesn’t Have to Be Scary

Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking – Tips and Support to Help You Shine

At some point in our lives, most of us are called upon to speak in public. It might be a heartfelt toast at a wedding, a eulogy at a funeral, or a presentation at work. For many, the thought of standing in front of an audience brings a wave of anxiety – sweaty palms, racing heart, and a fear of “forgetting what to say.”

But public speaking doesn’t have to be terrifying. With the right tools and a bit of practice, anyone can learn to speak with confidence, authenticity, and poise.

Why Do We Fear Public Speaking?
Fear often stems from a fear of judgment or making mistakes. But here’s the truth: your audience wants you to succeed. Whether you’re delivering a wedding speech or giving a presentation, they are rooting for you.

Tips for Speaking with Confidence
Here are a few practical strategies I found helpful from the Toastmasters Public Speaking Tips:

  1. Know your material. The better you understand your topic, the more relaxed you’ll feel.

  2. Practice, practice, practice. Rehearse your speech out loud. If possible, practice in front of a trusted friend.

  3. Focus on your message, not yourself. Your speech is about connecting with your audience, not about being perfect.

  4. Start with a smile. A friendly opening helps you relax and immediately connects with your audience.

  5. Pause and breathe. Silence is powerful – use it to gather your thoughts and emphasise key points.

A Safe Place to Practice: Toastmasters
The best way to become a confident speaker is to practice in a supportive, non-judgmental environment. This is where Toastmasters can make a world of difference. Toastmasters clubs meet regularly to help members develop communication and leadership skills through hands-on practice and feedback.

I encourage anyone who feels nervous about public speaking to find a local club. You’ll meet like-minded people, get constructive tips, and gain confidence in a friendly setting.

Visit Toastmasters International to explore their free resources and find a local club near you.

Register for free to the next Kettering, NN Clear Speakers meeting here.

Download
Article by
White Paper by Sally Barnard
Steve Rees
About Us
Learn more
Services
Learn more